What has our social-media-crazed world created?
In particular, my thoughts centre around the aggressive focus of physical appearance (of women) on all media platforms- but in particular social media. (Because we all know that’s where the people are!).
Who decided we all have to look a (very) particular way to be deemed as physically acceptable, let alone attractive?
When did it become the norm for everyday-people to feel the need to have plastic surgery to achieve these unattainable beauty standards?
Why has the need for apparent success and beauty become so rampant in the focus of our modern culture?
How do we make a difference in this (ironically intolerant) so-called “tolerant” culture, when voicing these concerns to anyone, feels like screaming with your mouth taped shut?!
Where did we go wrong?
I don’t assume in the slightest, to have all the answers to these questions. Far from it. In fact, I’m mostly just asking them.
Renowned makeup artist Alex Box, wrote a short poem on this exact paradigm:
LOOK at what we have created.”
Of course, there is the ever-probable conclusion we can draw, of the money-motivated marketing behind products and brands to convince the everyday woman aimlessly scrolling through her social media feed -that she needs to have this. And she needs it today. No wait, she needed it yesterday.
But I actually think the reason we don’t see right through this, is because at a deeper level -we don’t know who we really are. We don’t know just how valuable we are. In turn we are endlessly reaching for acceptance from a world which will never fully give it. Expectations that are actually impossible to reach, like a rat stuck on a wheel- feeling that they’re making progress but of course, getting nowhere.
One of the worst symptoms of this perilous trap, is that in order to to try and reach this acceptance, our focus turns inward. “I” am not good enough naturally. How can “I” look better? What do people think of “me?” How many followers do “I” have?
Looking inward is a guaranteed way to misery.
However, looking outward– to bettering the lives of those around us, is fulfilling on numerous levels.
And the most important, in my opinion – is looking upward. Looking to God, our creator. To speak to us directly, of our worth and value. To tell us who we are. We are His. Fearfully and wonderfully made by Him. Loved and adored by Him. And His love and acceptance is absolutely unconditional. Absolutely attainable. (1 John 4:9-11)
Only in this state of knowing who we are, unconditionally loved by God – can we clearly see the perils of the warped expectations that society demands of us.
Hailing from Perth, Lauren currently resides in the Hills of Sydney with her husband Grant. With an innate awareness of her surroundings – she has run an interior styling business for almost a decade and is now also branching out into a long-held passion with a global organisation, Alpha.